Our Couples Workshops
Based in San Diego, CA
And Other Areas
Our events are designed to awaken connection, deepen intimacy, and spark embodied love.
Most workshops are offered locally here in Southern California, but over the past decade, we've also taught across the country, at Tantra festivals, in Europe, on lifestyle cruises, and at resorts. We love bringing this work to new places and communities. So whether you're nearby or interested in hosting us in your city or community, we're open to traveling and co-creating something special.
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With only a few exceptions, all workshops are co-taught and demonstrated by us — Jonathan and Heike, a real-life couple sharing this path together. We believe in walking our talk, and we’re passionate about guiding other couples into deeper connection from a place of lived experience.
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General Workshop Guidelines: Understanding Our Containers
To help you make an informed choice before signing up, we've created a simple Level 1–3 system to describe the different types of containers we offer:
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Level 1: WHITE – Clothes stay on at all times. No sexual activity, though sensuality may be explored.
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Level 2: PINK – Clothes may come off, but bottoms stay on. Includes sensuality and light sexuality.
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Level 3: RED – Full nudity and open sexuality, always only within the container of your own coupledom.
If a specific event includes additional guidelines, they will be clearly stated in the workshop description.
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Please note: Most of our workshops are designed for couples or paired friends. Partners remain together throughout all sensual or sexual practices.
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Prefer something more intimate?
Every workshop you see here is also available as a private experience for individuals or couples who want a deep dive without the group setting.
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Reach out to inquire about private sessions or hosting us in your area — we’d love to connect!
Attunement
Energetic Connection for Lovers
Attunement is a hands-on, fully clothed workshop for couples who want to explore the invisible layer of connection that lives beneath words and physical touch. Through guided practices, partners learn how to feel, move, and play with sexual energy — amplifying polarity, deepening presence, and sparking erotic charge without ever laying a hand.
This class teaches energetic sensitivity, non-verbal communication, and how to consciously track and respond to your partner’s nervous system and arousal field. It’s ideal for couples who want to expand their sexual vocabulary beyond technique and deepen their intimacy through awareness, breath, eye contact, and subtle energetic play. (WHITE)
It’s All About HER
The Art of Worshipful Touch
t’s All About Her is a sacred somatic workshop focused on the art of conscious erotic touch and massage directed toward the female body. Couples are guided through practices that awaken her pleasure, honor her rhythms, and support her in fully receiving.
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This class also includes profound education on female and tantric anatomy — the class most people never had — offering powerful insights into her physical and energetic landscape. As the feminine body softens and opens, something profound awakens in the masculine: deeper sensitivity, reverence, and devotion. The workshop becomes a space where both partners are nourished — she through receiving, and he through giving from a place of love, presence, and embodied worship. (RED)
It’s All About HIM
Honoring the Masculine
It’s All About Him is a somatic workshop focused on the art of conscious erotic touch and Nuru inspired massage directed toward the male body. Couples are guided through practices that teach how to offer slow, present, and deeply connected touch that invites the masculine into full-body relaxation and surrender.
This is not a performance-based practice — it’s about creating safety, building anticipation, and offering reverence through her hands, voice, and breath. As the masculine body softens, something powerful awakens in the feminine: a deeper fire, confidence, and creative expression. The workshop creates a space where both partners are fed — he through receiving, and she through giving from a place of love, power, and embodied devotion. (RED)
Sex Magic
Intentional Sexuality
Sex Magic is a guided workshop that teaches couples how to harness the power of erotic energy and orgasm as a tool for creation. Through movement, breathwork, and partnered touch, participants learn how to circulate arousal, set powerful intentions, and direct energy toward a shared desire — whether that’s healing, manifestation, or connection.
This is not a woo-woo fantasy or abstract theory — it’s a practical, embodied experience that shows you how to use your sexual connection as a living ritual. The class culminates in a practice where couples are guided through intentional build-up, affirmation, and climax as a portal for manifestation. Pleasure becomes prayer, and sex becomes a sacred act of co-creation. (RED)
The Conscious Cock
Power, Presence, and Sexual Integrity
The Conscious Cock is a multi-week immersive series for men who are ready to awaken their sexual power, embody deep presence, and reclaim their erotic truth. This is not a performance-based sexuality course — it’s a transformational experience that brings men back into connection with their body, their heart, and their cock as a source of wisdom, vitality, and leadership.
Through somatic practices, movement, energetic awareness, and conscious erotic touch, men explore the path of the awakened masculine — where sex becomes a practice of integrity, attunement, and full-body expression. Each session builds capacity to feel more, express more, and lead from a place of grounded confidence and truth.
This series is for men who are done with disconnection, shame, and pressure — and ready to experience sex as something sacred, alive, and deeply satisfying for both themselves and their partners. (WHITE-RED)
Sensual Domination and Submission
Play with power. Lead with love. Surrender with safety.
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This workshop is an invitation for couples to step into the delicious dance of dominance and submission—not from a place of performance, but from presence, polarity, and deep connection. This is where the Dom leads with love, and the submissive surrenders with full trust. It’s not about force—it’s about energy, intention, and the kind of touch that makes your partner melt.
In The Sensual Dom, we guide you through an embodied journey of playing with power dynamics in a way that is intimate, respectful, and deeply erotic. You'll learn how to build a strong energetic container for dominance and submission to thrive—whether you’re brand new to this territory or already exploring D/s in your relationship.
We’ll work with clear communication, attuned touch, and conscious polarity. You’ll explore how to use voice, eye contact, physical presence, and simple props like blindfolds or scarves to awaken the body and create heightened sensation. Through guided exercises, you and your partner will explore what it feels like to lead and be led—with clarity, devotion, and consent at the center of everything.
This is about creating safety and surrender, and letting the erotic current flow through those roles. It’s about claiming your power, your pleasure, and your primal truth... together.
Couples stay partnered throughout the entire workshop. All exercises are designed to keep the experience focused on your unique dynamic and deepen what already exists between you. While taught from a heteronormative lens, this workshop welcomes all couples and expressions.
The Monogamish Lab
A space for couples who crave both devotion and freedom.
What if your relationship didn’t have to fit inside anyone else’s box?
What if you could explore your desires, your edges, your fears—together—without blowing up the love you’ve built?
The Monogamish Lab is a guided, heart-forward workshop for couples who are curious about opening their relationship just enough to feel expansive… without losing the connection, commitment, and safety that matter most.
This isn’t polyamory. It’s not swinging.
It’s something in-between.
It’s monogam-ish.
Together, we’ll unpack what’s really beneath the desire for openness: longing, truth, turn-on, jealousy, grief, unmet needs, sovereignty. This is a brave space to get radically honest, listen deeply, and design a relationship that’s actually built for you—not for culture, not for approval.
Expect real talk. Practical tools. Nervous system care.
And maybe the most important part? You’ll leave knowing that you’re not alone—and that your love can handle way more than you thought.
For couples ready to grow, question, and co-create a relationship that honors both trust and truth.
It's All About The Nervous System
A somatic journey into deep relaxation, trust, and release.
Underneath the stress, the tension, the anxiety that so many of us carry… there’s a nervous system that’s begging to exhale.
This workshop introduces couples to a powerful, little-known pathway for nervous system regulation using a technique called anal mapping—a sacred, intentional practice that activates the parasympathetic system and unlocks deep relaxation through the pelvic floor.
Yes, we go there. Gently. Consciously. With reverence.
Because the root holds more than we realize—emotion, memory, control, surrender.
And when touched with care, it becomes a gateway to healing.
In this experience, we teach the why, the how, and the when—through breath, consent, anatomy, and guided practice. You’ll learn to support your partner (and be supported) in accessing a level of release that calms the body, clears the mind, and invites in more intimacy.
This is not about pleasure. It’s about presence.
It’s about going slow enough to feel what’s been buried—and letting the body do what it’s always wanted to do: let go.
Come with your partner. Leave with your nervous systems soft, open, and reconnected.