THIS IS A SACRED SPACE FOR
Love, Intimacy
&
Pleasure On Purpose
Welcome to Sextraordinary Living—a trusted space for deep transformation in love, intimacy, and embodiment. We’re Jonathan and Heike, a married couple and co-creators of the Pleasure on Purpose™ method, here to guide individuals and couples into the healing, connection, and erotic aliveness they’ve been longing for.
Our approach blends somatic healing, sexological bodywork, trauma-informed coaching, energetic attunement, and shamanic wisdom. It’s not a formula—it’s a living, breathing path that meets you where you are. We believe in working through the body, not just the mind—because that’s where truth, safety, and lasting change live.
We work with individuals ready to release past trauma, regulate their nervous system, reclaim their pleasure, and awaken to their power. And we support couples who want to rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and explore conscious erotic connection. Whether you’re healing, growing, unraveling, or awakening—you’re welcome here.
Whether you’re craving more clarity, sensuality, joy, or depth… this is the place where it all comes together. Real love. Real tools. Real transformation.
Awaken Love & Deepen Connection
Whether you’re seeking support in your relationship, craving more intimacy and aliveness, or ready for deep personal transformation, we offer a range of powerful ways to work with us. From personalized coaching, workshops and immersive retreats to our signature Pleasure on Purpose program, our offerings meet you exactly where you are. You’ll also find online courses, tools, and written resources to deepen your journey—wherever you are in the world.
Pleasure on Purpose™
Our most powerful healing system for individuals and couples ready to release trauma, reclaim their body, and awaken erotic aliveness. This immersive program combines somatic healing, sexological bodywork, coaching, and energy work to help you move through stuck patterns and come home to your full vitality.
NICE TO MEET YOU
We are Jonathan & Heike
A Couple on a Mission
Our love is the foundation of everything we teach—intentionally created, deeply lived, and the inspiration behind our life’s work. The connection we share has shaped all that we’ve studied, taught, and continue to embody in our own relationship.
We understand the struggles couples face—disconnection, stress, unmet desires—because we’ve been there too. For over a decade, we’ve lived and worked together as global teachers and leading experts in somatic intimacy, sacred sexuality, and conscious relating.
Whether you're in a relationship or preparing for one, we’re here to help you discover your unique path to love, pleasure, and lasting fulfillment—with passion, play, and depth at the center of it all.
OUR GIFT TO YOU:
FREE DOWNLOAD
30 Days of Intimacy
Guidebook
From sparks to flames, this playful and powerful journey is designed to help couples reignite love, deepen connection, and expand their intimacy - one day at a time. Inside, you’ll find 30 days of guided prompts, conversations, practices, and sacred intimacy ideas to explore together or in your self love practice. Whether you're brand new or years into your relationship, this free playbook will inspire you to connect, communicate, and turn the heat back on - with heart.
Our Thoughts on Love,
Connection & Intimacy
Here you’ll find thoughtful reflections, practical tools, and deeper truths from our own journey—created to support yours. Whether you’re here to reignite your spark, heal old patterns, or open to something new together, these articles offer insights to guide you home to each other.
TESTIMONIALS
What Our Clients Are Saying
THE FIRST STEP OF YOUR JOURNEY
Ready to Create the Love and Intimacy you truly Desire?
If you're exploring private coaching, somatic sessions or considering our exclusive Pleasure on Purpose™ immersion, a discovery call is the first step. This work is powerful, personal, and tailored to your very own needs. Recently our work has moved more into group facilitation and we only offer private sessions to a small number of aligned clients at a time. An initial phone call helps us both feel into whether the timing, readiness, and resonance are right—for you, and for us.
